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Thanks to everyone who joined me for Thursday's workshop on designing effective habits. You can get the replay soon if you are a member of Domestika (which I highly recommend if you love learning and you are a creative person): "Designing (and Sticking to) Effective Habits for Creative People" If you missed it, here's the short version: The best habits for creative people are tiny, controllable, convenient, repeatable (with the appropriate "rhythm"), enjoyable, and connected to a goal you actually care about (not just something you "should" be doing). Simple in theory. Harder in practice. And honestly? Most habit advice out there doesn't help. Here's why: it misses something fundamental about creative people. Freedom. Freedom is a core value for us. We resist routines. We resist schedules. We resist anything that feels like it might trap us or box us in. We hear the word "habit" and our inner rebel immediately says: Every day? Forever? No thanks. We love possibility and openness. What if I change my mind? What if something better comes along? And if we commit to a habit and then fail... well, that feels terrible. So it's often safer to stay in the land of imagination where everything still feels possible. This is why I disagree with James Clear's identity-based habit theory. It sounds inspiring. But for a lot of creative people I work with, this framing actually backfires. Because when your habit slips (and it will), you're not just failing at a behavior. You're failing at being the person you said you wanted to be. That's a much heavier weight to carry. And for people who already struggle with self-doubt and perfectionism, it can make things worse, not better. It adds shame on top of the missed habit. If you want a fun (and funny) take on some of the issues with Atomic Habits, check out the "If Books Could Kill" podcast episode on it. I recently discovered this podcast, and I love it. It does a great job highlighting the absurdities and slightly off-base suggestions that many popular self-help books and gurus give you. (Mel Robbins, the "Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck" guy, and others get the treatment too.) Here's what I've come to believe: A lot of productivity and self-help advice just isn't designed for creative, entrepreneurial people. It's designed for people optimizing predictable work in predictable environments. But creative work is messy. Nonlinear. Uncertain. And when we try to apply cookie-cutter advice to it, we often end up feeling guilt or shame when it doesn't work. We assume we're the problem. But we're not the problem. The advice just wasn't built with the creative brain or creative work in mind. Here's a reframe to experiment with: Habits do NOT have to mean every day, forever. They do NOT have to be tied to your identity. They do NOT have to feel rigid or confining. You always have freedom and permission to evolve your habits, to pause them, to change them entirely, and to STOP them when you've reached your creative goal and no longer need them. That's not failure. That's responsiveness and learning. The key is finding the right balance of structure and freedom for you. We all need a different mix. That's why I think of my 6-element framework as a set of guidelines, not strict laws. Trust yourself to dial it in. That's what I try to do differently. I'm not as popular as James Clear by any means. But I think my frameworks and coaching are more practical, more personalized, and rooted in a deeper understanding of the actual psychology of creative people and creative work. (Shoutout to my PhD advisor Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi for that foundation.) Which brings me to something I built specifically for creative, entrepreneurial people: The 5-Minute Creative Momentum Habit It's a simple daily check-in coaching system designed to help you:
All in about 5 minutes a day. Here's how it works: You respond to 3 Creative Momentum™ short prompts, 3x per week:
Plus personalized daily text nudges from me to help you stay aligned with your priorities. It's great for staying consistent to a creative habit that helps you bring your biggest creative ideas to life. It's $99/month. No long commitment. No complex systems. Just a lightweight structure that keeps you moving forward. If you're curious whether it's a fit, let's talk. Book a Free 30-Minute Discovery Call We'll chat about your goals, what's been getting in the way, and whether this is the right support for you. No pressure. — Coach Jeff 🤘 P.S. If you're not ready for coaching but want to experiment on your own, I have a free Creative Momentum Habit Design Toolkit workbook I am happy to send you if you reply to this email and request it! It walks you through the full 6-element framework. |
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